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BrBkWolf asked:

Does that mean you only slap a little bit?  Or do you only slap little guys?

No, I think it's being slapped by little guys.  They're likely to have little hands after all.  But then - what's the point?

SaintCahier fainted after asking:

Wait, we can see the votes of other people?!

You bet.  Cilck the Votes tab at the top and we can all see that you're GGG!

This is another typo --- it should read "A little slapping won't hurt". Wheather you are in the receiving or the giving end --- or the size of the people involved --- is imaterial ;-)

(This entry was inspired by the lyrics of a major summer hit of Funk Carioca --- "Um tapinha não dói" --- one of those ear worms that devastate my poor country from time to time)

Wait, we can see the votes of other people?!

What about fantasy?  While all of my quite limited experience has been vanilla, I love leather and BDSM porn (as well as vanilla porn).

I think your point is valid. If I consider the kinks about which for me are only fantasy, but I would never ever even consider to actually perform, I would be definetely riding on the edge.

I think that you have to think: IF you had the OPPORTUNITY to perform then, would you? Then it's not just fantasy: it's a potential kink waiting for the right setting.

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I am a radical submissive. I spend too much time already as a "top", non-sexually, exercising my authority. When playing, I like the utter pleasure of having (or pretending to have) absolutely no control or responsibility.

I've just gotten into Dan in the last few months. I'm currently working my way through back issues of the podcasts.

An now, let's talk about polls. It seems that there is always an option not offered; and here I have to make a small apology of sorts to SaintCahier. What about fantasy?  While all of my quite limited experience has been vanilla, I love leather and BDSM porn (as well as vanilla porn). The really wierd thing for me about BDSM porn is that I can't figure out whether I want to be the master or the slave.

I've never heard of GGG, but I don't really read Savage.  Maybe I should.  

It happens that I am a huge fan of Dan Savage. From wikipedia: 

"GGG

Dan Savage and his readers often use the abbreviation GGG. This stands for "good, giving and game", and generally refers to Savage's ideal for healthy human sexuality: that a partner should be "good, giving and game" (within reasonable limits) when presented with a person's fantasy, however kinky or unusual. In his March 1, 2007 column, Savage summarized "GGG stands for 'good, giving, and game,' which is what we should all strive to be for our sex partners. Think 'good in bed,' 'giving equal time and equal pleasure,' and 'game for anything—within reason.'"

There is a typo on the last option, which should read "I could get (or got)", of course...